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Too morbid?

Too morbid?

Postby Barry on Wed Jul 23, 2008 1:08 pm

I submitted the following bit to Tim, last year, for his consideration for Golden Wing. Tim obvious did think it a bit morbid or out of place and decided that it was not for Golden Wing.
I came across it as I was having a clean out and thought it may give the Forum something to talk about.


Hi Tim, A bit for your consideration. Not having been on the bike since September with probably another month before I am able to ride again (they keep cutting my stomach open to rearange things!) I will understand if you think it is a bit morbid :o?


TO NEW BIKERS

Welcome to the world of the unseen.

Once you are on a moving motorcycle, you will be come unseen by all other road users. It is only when you are stopped that you will be come visible to most. This gives them the opportunity to question your contribution to noise pollution and other things - your mental state and your parentage for example. It also gives them to opportunity to hit you if you should be laying prone in the road.

Laying prone in the road is a position often taken up by motorcyclists. This is due to the basic instability of motorcycles. Rain tends to enhance the instability especially if accompanied by braking or changing direction - doing both at the same time can almost guarantee the prone position.

Many bikers, invest heavily in protective gear. What the manufacturers do not make clear is that the various bits of gear are very good at protecting itself. Apart from when they protect the rider from gravel rash - when the gear may well become scuffed. Most gear has the ability to transmit forces that shatter bones and rupture internal organs without showing any signs of impact damage. Helmets can brake necks or cause the brain to rattle about in the skull whilst showing little more than a bit of chipped paint. Boots have been seen to look in good condition, even when they have been found with a detached foot inside them.

I tend to agree with the long and expensive process of getting a motorcycle license. Not because it makes for better bikers, but it does tend to give people time to reflect and to put off all but the most determined.

There are millions of ‘ex bikers’ out there, who in simpler days gave biking a try but decided it was not for them - or they had the decision made for them. Parents, wives, girl/boy friends and even the neighbors tend to frown upon motorcycling as a method of transport - with good reason.

Death and crippling injury of a loved one, can not only be very upsetting it can also be very inconvenient. The inconvenience can linger long after they crying has stopped. For those without dependents, it need not be a great issue, but for those with dependents they are not only putting themselves at risk, they are also threatening the future of those who are dependent upon them. Be it aging parents or young children, suddenly having their ‘rock’ turn to sand can be very inconvenient. Whatever the cause the very fact that a motorcycle was involved automatically gives the event a tinge of ‘self infliction’.

In recent years we have seen quite a flux of what are called Born Again Bikers. I think this is great. It suggest that they took up biking when they were young with no responsibilities, gave up biking during their ‘responsible’ years and have returned now the kids are off hand and perhaps the mortgage paid.

Just remember that for every biker now on the road, their are thousands of ex bikers and even more ‘thought about it but decided not’ people who have made a different decision than you.

Proving them wrong will not be easy - now you are among the invisibles.

Good luck - but don’t rely upon it!
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Re: Too morbid?

Postby Chris'TR' on Wed Jul 23, 2008 1:42 pm

Yes Barry! we dont need to be reminded that which we are all fully aware of! and of course, some members will indeed find it upsetting if its happened to them! :shock:

..It raises a few serious points though. :o(
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Re: Too morbid?

Postby Shellshine on Wed Jul 23, 2008 1:55 pm

It didn't upset me to read it but I can see perhaps why it didn't make it into GW.
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Re: Too morbid?

Postby Chimp Boy on Wed Jul 23, 2008 5:20 pm

Barry, I have read this before, have you posted it somewhere else?

Good read though.

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Re: Too morbid?

Postby EricaVFR on Thu Jul 24, 2008 2:46 pm

Yes it is morbid reading but to counter this you should talk with Allie, one of our new members. She will not drive a car as she had a horrific crash and has been left with a lot of scars - will only ride a motorbike now and does on a daily basis.

I have done over 100,000 miles in 8 years on a bike and have been involed in two incidents but am not put off. You could live carefully all your life and get caught by some dreaded disease - my philosophy is live every day and enjoy it 8) - don't worry about how long you will live 'cos worrying won't add a minute or a day to it!
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Re: Too morbid?

Postby Chris'TR' on Thu Jul 24, 2008 3:45 pm

EricaVFR wrote: You could live carefully all your life and get caught by some dreaded disease - my philosophy is live every day and enjoy it 8) - don't worry about how long you will live 'cos worrying won't add a minute or a day to it!


Thats a sound approach to life Erica, the point is though that someone reading the article might well have lost a partner or child in such a manner. It is perhaps incensitive to open old wounds and unnecessary in this case for the reasons I stated. In my humble opinion! :o)
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Re: Too morbid?

Postby Barry on Fri Jul 25, 2008 12:44 pm

Chris 'TR' - Yes Barry! we dont need to be reminded that which we are all fully aware of!


All of us?

The piece was addressed to learners and those considering bike riding. Specifically to those with responsibilities to others.

Is there nothing that members think are too risky to undertake as a hobby? Nothing they would be too frightened to do or be worried about the effect upon others their fun may cause?

Chimpy - perhaps it did appear in Golden Wing, I did miss a couple of issues.

Chris'TR' -someone reading the article might well have lost a partner or child in such a manner


I am talking from experience. I lost my 'rock' to a motorcycle accident.
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Re: Too morbid?

Postby Shellshine on Fri Jul 25, 2008 2:55 pm

To be honest Barry I thought your article stated the obvious but just in a very direct and brutal fashion. (Not always a bad thing but sometimes sensitivity is better.)

It is my belief that those who contemplate motorcycling do so knowing very well that if you come off (at whatever speed) that the odds are it will either a) hurt b) maim or c) kill you.

When you think about riding (or being a pillion) on a bike you know the risks and yes, I think,as Christ T-R intonated, all of us know them.

Just as we know the risks when smoking cigarettes, or taking drugs or drinking and driving or simply just driving etc etc

You make an informed decision and a judgement call and it is your perogatvie to do so. How one justifies it on the basis of potential impact on others... well...I don't have an answer to that. It's entirely subjective isn't it.

Interesting discussion though.. :| and sorry to hear of your loss.
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Re: Too morbid?

Postby Chimp Boy on Sat Jul 26, 2008 9:02 am

I don't think it's a bad idea to be reminded how dangerous motorcycling is, we can all become complacent at times. I'm sure many of us have lost a friend or relative in a motorcyling accident at some time. It sure hits home when it happens.

I cringe at some of the things I got up to when I started riding (and driving for the that matter) and have taken on a much more defensive attidue as I've matured. The thing is I don't find it any less enjoyable by not scraping my bike around every corner or screaming along roads at highly illegal speeds.

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Re: Too morbid?

Postby jimmyb on Sat Jul 26, 2008 1:02 pm

Must be me, but I was amused
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