If I may contribute to this multi-faceted thread. I havent trawled right back to the start of the thread, but the title caught my eye and if anyone advocated it, I would be amazed, no normal person with the slightest hint of common courtesy would do such a thing, only an ignoramus. However, times and standards change, for instance, when was the last time you saw someone stand up for an elderly person on a bus or train?

(I stood up for an old woman on a train in Dusseldorf last week and instantly became an object of curiosity!

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As to appropriate clothing, its a matter for personal choice, but I do think it is the responsibility of the club, to point out to the idiot what could happen if he came off in shorts and sandels, by showing him some of the pictures that are available on the internet of victims of bike accidents. Incidentally, we
never ride without proper spine protectors, how many others do the same? Not the majority I'll bet.
Regarding inexperienced riders in groups and also
experienced riders who are inexperienced riding in groups (I was in that category when I joined the club)need patience and understanding when on a group ride. The HOC says that it caters for riders of all machines and abilitys and IMO if you cannot adhere to that philosiphy, you should be getting your jollies riding with a club or group that are all the same ability, easily organised I would think!
Although I am reasonably comfortable these days, I still dont do a lot of riding in groups, I like to set my pace to how I feel, sometimes Di will ask me why we arent overtaking and Its just that I am simply enjoying the experience and forget to! Othertimes we really enjoy a blatt just like everyone else, surely its all about tollerance.
Al
I started out with nothin and I still got most of it left.